1 Samuel 20:6
If thy father at all miss me, then say, David earnestly asked leave of me that he might run to Beth–lehem his city: for there is a yearly sacrifice there for all the family.
1 Samuel 20:6 (KJV)
Context
David and Jonathan share a deep friendship, but King Saul now wants David dead. Saul’s jealousy has grown so strong that David cannot safely appear at the royal table. In this verse, Jonathan gives David a plan to test Saul’s intentions. If Saul notices David’s absence, David is to say he asked Jonathan for permission to go to Bethlehem for a yearly family sacrifice. This excuse is believable because Bethlehem is David’s own city, and such sacrifices were a normal part of family life.
Meaning
The phrase “If thy father at all miss me” shows Jonathan’s careful concern for David’s safety. Jonathan knows his father’s anger and wants to protect his friend. The proposed words “David earnestly asked leave of me” present David as respectful and obedient, not as a rebel. The reason “for there is a yearly sacrifice there for all the family” makes the request sound natural and honorable. This plan is not a lie, because David truly had family in Bethlehem and such sacrifices were customary. Jonathan would support the request, so the story would hold up if Saul checked.
Biblical connections
This passage shows covenant loyalty between friends, which reflects God’s faithfulness to His anointed servant. David is God’s chosen future king, and Jonathan’s protection helps preserve him. The mention of Bethlehem also points to David’s family roots, and later to Jesus, who was born in that same town (Matthew 2:1). The connection is not made in this verse, but it reminds readers of God’s long plan.
Application
Believers today can learn from Jonathan’s loyalty and wisdom. True friendship sometimes requires personal risk and careful planning. When facing danger or opposition, it is wise to seek godly counsel and act with prudence. Honoring family and religious traditions can also be part of a faithful life, even when such practices serve a protective purpose. Prayer and Scripture study help believers discern the right course, just as Jonathan guided David with courage and care.
Reflection
God uses faithful friends to protect and guide His people. Jonathan’s actions remind us that loyalty and integrity matter, even in difficult circumstances. As we read this verse, we can ask ourselves how we might support others who are in danger or need, and how we can trust God to work through our wise and loving choices.
