2 Samuel 16:20
Then said Absalom to Ahithophel, Give counsel among you what we shall do.
2 Samuel 16:20 (KJV)
Context
Absalom has entered Jerusalem after forcing King David to flee. He now turns to Ahithophel, a counselor who had left David to join the rebellion. Ahithophel’s advice was so valued that people listened to him as if they were asking God for direction (2 Samuel 16:23). Absalom’s request for counsel shows that even a rebel understood the need for guidance. Yet the setting is heavy with danger. Absalom has taken the city, and his next move will shape the conflict.
Meaning
Absalom asks, “Give counsel among you what we shall do.” He does not seek God’s will, but human strategy. His words reveal a heart set on securing his own power. The request itself is not wrong, but the motive behind it is. Absalom wants advice that will strengthen his rebellion, not correction that might turn him back. He treats counsel as a tool for his own plans, not as a way to discover truth.
Biblical connections
Scripture repeatedly warns against trusting human wisdom apart from God. Proverbs 3:5-6 urges believers to trust the Lord rather than their own understanding. Ahithophel’s counsel led Absalom into further sin, proving that even wise advice can be destructive when it serves ungodly goals. The contrast is clear: godly counsel submits to God’s truth, while worldly counsel only serves personal ambition. Ahithophel’s advice, though shrewd, was not from God.
Application
When making decisions, seek advice from mature believers who are grounded in Scripture. Ask whether the counsel you receive draws you closer to God or simply helps you achieve your own plans. Humility is essential. Absalom asked for advice but remained proud, so he could not receive correction. True humility welcomes counsel that challenges our desires. Consider the source and the goal of every piece of advice you follow.
Reflection
Consider your own approach to guidance. Do you genuinely want God’s will, or do you only want confirmation of your own plans? Rebellion against God’s order brings ruin, but humble obedience leads to blessing. Let this verse remind you to value wisdom that honors God, and to examine the motives behind every request for advice.
