1 Kings 19:20
And he left the oxen, and ran after Elijah, and said, Let me, I pray thee, kiss my father and my mother, and then I will follow thee. And he said unto him, Go back again: for what have I done to thee?
1 Kings 19:20 (KJV)
Context
This verse continues the story of Elijah and Elisha. In the previous verse, Elijah had thrown his mantle over Elisha, a sign that the prophetic ministry would pass to him. Elisha was working with twelve yoke of oxen, a sign of a prosperous farmer. His immediate response was to leave the oxen and run after Elijah.
Meaning
Elisha’s request to kiss his father and mother was not a sign of hesitation. In that culture, such a farewell was a proper act of respect and love. He was not making an excuse; he was asking for a brief moment to honor his parents. Elijah’s reply, “Go back again: for what have I done to thee?” was not a rejection. It was a test. Elijah wanted Elisha to understand that the call was not forced. The question “what have I done to thee?” shows that Elijah had not compelled or manipulated him. Elisha had to decide freely to follow.
Biblical connections
Elisha’s later action in 1 Kings 19:21 confirms his wholehearted choice. He burned his plowing equipment and slaughtered his oxen to feed the people. That act cut him off from his old life completely. It shows that true discipleship requires a willing response and a clear break from the past. The call of God is an invitation, not a coercion.
Application
This verse teaches us to count the cost of following God. Elisha left his work and his family to follow Elijah. When God calls us, He may ask us to leave behind comfort, familiar places, or even close relationships. We must be ready to surrender our plans and desires. Family ties are important, but God’s call must come first. Our allegiance to Him should be above every other commitment.
Elijah’s response also shows that God tests our commitment. He may allow us to consider what we are leaving behind. This is not to discourage us, but to strengthen our resolve. We should trust God’s guidance even when His answer seems unclear. He knows our hearts and wants us to follow Him willingly, not out of pressure.
Counting the cost: Following God often requires leaving behind what is familiar and comfortable.
Wholehearted commitment: When God calls, He expects our complete devotion, without reservation.
Prioritizing God’s call: Family relationships are good, but God’s call must take priority.
Trusting God’s guidance: God may test our dedication, but we can trust His timing and purpose.
Reflection
Elisha’s example challenges us to examine our own level of commitment. Are we willing to leave everything to follow Jesus? Do we hold back because of comfort, family, or fear? The call of God is a gracious invitation. He does not force us, but He asks for a willing heart. When we respond with faith and obedience, we find that He is worthy of every sacrifice.
