Ecclesiastes 7:21
Also take no heed unto all words that are spoken; lest thou hear thy servant curse thee:
Ecclesiastes 7:21 (KJV)
Context
This verse comes from Ecclesiastes, a book written by King Solomon. He reflects on the meaning of life and the limits of human wisdom. In this passage, he gives practical advice about how to respond when others speak against you.
The surrounding verses help explain his point. Ecclesiastes 7:20 says that no one on earth is righteous and never sins. Verse 22 reminds us that we ourselves have often spoken ill of others. Since all people are imperfect, we should not be shocked when someone says something unkind about us.
Meaning
The phrase “take no heed” means “do not set your heart on” or “do not take to heart.” Solomon advises us not to pay close attention to every word spoken, especially critical or insulting words. If we listen too carefully, we may hear our own servant curse us. A servant could be an employee or someone under our authority, but the principle applies to anyone close to us.
This is not a command to ignore all criticism. It is a wise warning against being overly sensitive or preoccupied with what others say. Such words can cause unnecessary distress and conflict. The verse encourages us to guard our hearts and not let negative remarks disturb our peace.
Biblical connections
This teaching fits the broader wisdom literature of the Bible, which values self-control, discretion, and peacemaking. It also connects to the theme of humility. Because we have all sinned in speech, we can be patient with the faults of others.
Application
In daily life, we can choose what we pay attention to. When we hear a negative comment, we can pause and ask whether it is true and useful. If it is not, we can let it pass. This protects our well-being and helps us respond with wisdom and integrity.
We should also remember our own words. Knowing that we have spoken wrongly at times makes us more merciful toward others. This does not forbid addressing real problems or seeking reconciliation, but it warns against dwelling on every negative word.
Reflection
Solomon points us toward a life focused on righteousness rather than on the opinions of others. By taking no heed of careless words, we free ourselves to walk steadily in the path of wisdom and peace.

