Matthew 19:10
“His disciples say unto him, If the case of the man be so with his wife, it is not good to marry.”
Context:is crucial when studying any Bible verse, so let’s examine the surrounding verses as well. In Matthew 19:1-9, Jesus is addressing the Pharisees’ question about divorce. He explains that divorce was permitted under the Mosaic Law due to the hardness of people’s hearts, but in the beginning, God’s intention was for marriage to be a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman. The disciples respond to Jesus’ teaching on divorce with the statement in verse 10.
This verse reflects the disciples’ reaction to Jesus’ teaching on divorce and His assertion that divorce should not be taken lightly. Their response suggests that if marriage is so binding and divorce is not permissible, then it might be better not to marry at all. The disciples’ statement reflects their surprise and the seriousness with which they perceived Jesus’ teaching on marriage.
It’s important to note that Jesus does not endorse their statement in this verse but provides a response in the following verses. Let’s continue reading to gain a fuller understanding:
“But he said unto them, All men cannot receive this saying, save they to whom it is given. For there are some eunuchs, which were so born from their mother’s womb: and there are some eunuchs, which were made eunuchs of men: and there be eunuchs, which have made themselves eunuchs for the kingdom of heaven’s sake. He that is able to receive it, let him receive it.” (Matthew 19:11-12, KJV)
In His response, Jesus acknowledges that not everyone is called to a life without marriage. He introduces the concept of eunuchs, which in this context refers to individuals who abstain from marriage for various reasons. Some are born eunuchs, some are made eunuchs by others, and some choose to be eunuchs for the sake of the kingdom of heaven. Jesus emphasizes that the ability to accept a life without marriage is a special calling and not meant for everyone.
In summary, Matthew 19:10 captures the disciples’ reaction to Jesus’ teaching on marriage and divorce. Their response reflects their surprise and the gravity of Jesus’ words. However, Jesus goes on to explain that not everyone is called to a life without marriage, and it is a special calling for those who are able to receive it.
This passage reminds us of the importance of marriage as a lifelong commitment, and it acknowledges that not everyone is called to this particular vocation. It also underscores the significance of seeking God’s guidance and discernment in matters of marriage and relationships.
