1 Chronicles 19:2
And David said, I will shew kindness unto Hanun the son of Nahash, because his father shewed kindness to me. And David sent messengers to comfort him concerning his father. So the servants of David came into the land of the children of Ammon to Hanun, to comfort him.
1 Chronicles 19:2 (KJV)
Context
This verse opens a conflict between Israel and the Ammonites. Nahash, the former king of Ammon, had once shown kindness to David. When Nahash died, David wanted to honor that friendship by sending messengers to comfort his son Hanun. The surrounding chapter shows that Hanun’s officials suspected these men were spies, and their rejection led to war. David’s initiative was genuine, but it was met with suspicion.
Meaning
David’s words reveal a deliberate choice. He did not wait for Hanun to ask for help; he took the first step. The Hebrew word for kindness here is chesed, meaning loyal, covenant-like love. This was not a casual gesture. David was responding faithfully to a favor received years before. His action shows that true kindness remembers past goodness and seeks to repay it. It also models gratitude and compassion toward a neighboring nation.
Biblical connections
This principle of returning kindness appears in Proverbs 17:17, where a friend loves at all times, including times of grief. David’s example also points to the greater comfort God offers His people, as 2 Corinthians 1:3-4 describes God as the Father of mercies and the God of all comfort. Believers are called to reflect that same comfort to others.
Application
We can follow David’s example by remembering those who have helped us and by encouraging them in their sorrow. We should also avoid misinterpreting good intentions, as Hanun’s advisors did. Suspicion can destroy relationships and lead to unnecessary conflict. When our sincere efforts are rejected, we should not be discouraged, for God sees our heart.
Reflection
Consider someone who showed you kindness in the past. Have you thanked them or offered comfort in their time of need? Ask God to give you a heart that initiates kindness, even when it is not expected or returned.
