1 Corinthians 7:13

And the woman which hath an husband that believeth not, and if he be pleased to dwell with her, let her not leave him.

1 Corinthians 7:13 (KJV)

Context

In the preceding verse, Paul addresses believers married to unbelievers, advising that if the unbelieving spouse is content to remain, the believer should not seek separation. This verse applies the same principle to a Christian woman whose husband does not share her faith.

Meaning

The phrase “pleased to dwell with her” translates the Greek verb suneudokei, which conveys the husband’s willing consent to continue living together peacefully. Paul’s command that she “not leave him” uses the same verb for divorce as in the parallel case, making clear that the believing wife is not to initiate separation when the marriage is harmonious.

This instruction is part of Paul’s broader counsel upholding the permanence of marriage. It applies when the marriage existed before conversion and the unbelieving spouse is willing to remain. Paul notes this is his apostolic judgment, not a direct command from the Lord, yet it carries authority as inspired Scripture.

Biblical connections

The immediate context in verse 14 explains that the unbelieving spouse is “sanctified” through the believing spouse, which is a key reason for remaining in the marriage. The believer’s faith does not dissolve the union; rather, it sets the marriage apart for God’s purposes.

Application

By remaining in the marriage, the believing wife has an opportunity to be a positive influence on her husband. The example of a godly life and the expression of Christian love can witness to the transforming power of God and carry hope for his eventual salvation.

This verse does not endorse abusive or dangerous situations. The emphasis is on willing, peaceful coexistence. If the unbelieving spouse is hostile or threatening, seeking help and taking appropriate safety measures may be necessary.

Reflection

Paul values the preservation of the marital bond and encourages believers to prioritize unity and peace. This teaching calls for trust in God’s design for marriage and a commitment to display Christ’s love through words and actions.