1 Corinthians 7:36

But if any man think that he behaveth himself uncomely toward his virgin, if she pass the flower of her age, and need so require, let him do what he will, he sinneth not: let them marry.

1 Corinthians 7:36 (KJV)

Context

This verse belongs to Paul’s broader teaching on marriage and singleness in 1 Corinthians 7, where he answers concerns raised by the Corinthian church. In verse 36, Paul addresses a father who is considering whether to give his virgin daughter in marriage. The phrase “behave himself uncomely” suggests the father feels he is not acting honourably toward his daughter, while “pass the flower of her age” indicates she is past the typical age for marriage. Paul assures the father that if he perceives this need and decides to let the marriage take place, he does not sin.

Meaning

In the cultural setting of ancient Corinth, parents held significant authority over their children’s marriages, especially daughters. This verse affirms that a father may rightly use that authority to permit a marriage when circumstances require it. He is not sinning by allowing the marriage; rather, he is acting within his rights and fulfilling his parental responsibility. The immediate context supports this reading: verse 37 commends the man who has settled in his own mind and has control over his will to remain unmarried, while verse 38 states that he who marries does well, but he who does not marry does better. Thus, the passage presents both options as acceptable, with singleness commended for those who can receive it.

Application

Believers today can apply this verse by seeking wisdom and acting honourably in decisions about marriage. It encourages parents and guardians to consider the needs of those in their care and to make decisions that are in their best interest. It also reminds the church that marriage is a legitimate and honourable choice, and that neither marrying nor remaining single is inherently sinful.

Reflection

This verse calls for discernment and a clear conscience. Whether one marries or remains single, the goal is to act in a way that is honourable and aligned with God’s principles. The father’s freedom to choose, without guilt, points to the broader Christian liberty believers have in making wise decisions for the good of others.