1 Samuel 20:29

And he said, Let me go, I pray thee; for our family hath a sacrifice in the city; and my brother, he hath commanded me to be there: and now, if I have found favour in thine eyes, let me get away, I pray thee, and see my brethren. Therefore he cometh not unto the king’s table.

1 Samuel 20:29 (KJV)

Context

This verse sits within the larger narrative of 1 Samuel 20, where Jonathan, the son of King Saul, and David are close friends. Saul has grown jealous of David and wants to kill him. During the new moon feast, David is absent from the king’s table. Jonathan speaks to Saul and gives the reason for David’s absence.

Meaning

Jonathan explains that David has asked to go to Bethlehem for a family sacrifice. David says, “Let me go, I pray thee; for our family hath a sacrifice in the city; and my brother, he hath commanded me to be there: and now, if I have found favour in thine eyes, let me get away, I pray thee, and see my brethren.” This is a cover story, a prearranged excuse to protect David from Saul’s anger. The sacrifice is a family or clan peace offering, and David’s brother has commanded him to attend. The excuse is plausible and culturally appropriate, showing the seriousness of family religious duties in Israel.

Biblical connections

Jonathan’s loyalty to David goes beyond his duty to his father, the king. This reflects the covenant friendship between them, a central theme in 1 Samuel. The verse also shows how God can use human plans and ordinary events, like a family sacrifice, to protect David and fulfill His purposes. The new moon feast was a time of celebration, and David’s absence was noticeable, making the excuse necessary.

Application

From this verse we learn that true friendship may require sacrifice and wisdom. Jonathan balances his duty to his father with his promise to David, using discretion to avoid open conflict. Honoring family and religious commitments is important, but protecting the innocent can take priority. In our lives, we may face situations where we must act with integrity and courage, standing by those we love even when it is risky.

Reflection

Consider how you handle difficult loyalties. Do you seek wise solutions that honor both your relationships and your devotion to God? Jonathan’s example encourages us to be faithful friends, to act with discernment, and to trust that God can work through our careful plans to accomplish His will.