2 Chronicles 10:7
And they spake unto him, saying, If thou be kind to this people, and please them, and speak good words to them, they will be thy servants for ever.
2 Chronicles 10:7 (KJV)
Context
This verse records the counsel of the elders who served King Solomon. After Solomon died, his son Rehoboam became king. The people asked him to lighten the heavy burdens and harsh labor his father had placed on them. Rehoboam first consulted these older advisors, who urged him to respond with kindness and gentle words.
Meaning
The elders promised that if Rehoboam were kind, pleased the people, and spoke good words, they would serve him forever. Their advice was practical and wise. Kindness and gracious speech were not weak; they were the means to secure lasting loyalty. The phrase “speak good words” means more than flattery. It means honest, encouraging, and respectful communication that honors the dignity of others.
Biblical connections
The parallel account in 1 Kings 12:7 uses even stronger language: the king should be a servant to the people. This shows that true leadership in Scripture is servant leadership. A ruler is called to serve the people, not merely to rule over them. The elders’ counsel reflects this principle: considerate words and fair treatment build unity and trust.
Application
Rehoboam rejected this wise counsel and followed the harsher advice of his young peers, which led to the division of the kingdom. His mistake warns us that pride can blind us to good advice. In our families, workplaces, and churches, we can choose to speak kindly and seek the welfare of others. Such speech is not manipulation; it is a genuine expression of respect.
Listen to seasoned advisors before making decisions.
Let your words build others up, not tear them down.
Serve those under your care, and loyalty will follow naturally.
Reflection
This verse reminds us that leadership is a responsibility, not a privilege. When we treat people with kindness and speak good words, we reflect God’s own character. Consider how your words and actions affect those around you. Will they inspire faithful service and harmony, or division and regret?
