2 Samuel 15:5

And it was so, that when any man came nigh to him to do him obeisance, he put forth his hand, and took him, and kissed him.

2 Samuel 15:5 (KJV)

Context

This verse belongs to the account of Absalom’s rebellion against his father, King David. Absalom was a charismatic and ambitious son who wanted the throne. He stood at the city gate, where people came seeking justice from the king. When anyone approached to bow in homage, Absalom reached out, took hold of him, and kissed him.

Meaning

“And it was so” shows that these events were happening at that time, during Absalom’s careful plan. “When any man came nigh to him to do him obeisance” refers to people who honored him as the king’s son and presumed heir. “He put forth his hand, and took him, and kissed him” was a calculated gesture. The kiss was a sign of honor and affection, but here it was false. Absalom used it to appear approachable, humble, and caring, while his real aim was to steal loyalty from David.

Biblical connections

The next verse, 2 Samuel 15:6, says Absalom stole the hearts of the men of Israel. His outward charm masked selfish ambition. This contrasts with Christ, who came not to be served but to serve, and whose love is genuine.

Application

This passage warns against flattery and outward charm that hide selfish motives. It calls believers to discernment, examining the heart behind actions. Not all who show affection have pure intentions. Guard against the seduction of popularity and power.

Reflection

Consider your own motives. Do you seek to win people through honest love, or through manipulation? True humility serves others, while Absalom’s kiss served only himself.