Matthew 19:7
They say unto him, Why did Moses then command to give a writing of divorcement, and to put her away?
Matthew 19:7 (KJV)
Context
Matthew 19:7 sits within a larger conversation in which the Pharisees test Jesus about divorce. They ask why Moses commanded a man to give a writing of divorcement and to put away his wife. Their question follows Jesus’ affirmation of marriage’s permanence in Matthew 19:4-6, where He cites the creation account and declares that the two become one flesh and that what God has joined together, man must not separate.
The Pharisees refer to Deuteronomy 24:1-4, where Moses allowed a certificate of divorce under specific circumstances. They interpret this allowance as a command, using it to challenge Jesus’ stricter teaching. Their focus is on the permissive side of the law, not on the original design of marriage.
Meaning
The Greek phrase for “writing of divorcement” denotes a formal certificate, and “put away” means to send away or dismiss. The Pharisees’ question assumes that Moses’ regulation was a command, but Jesus’ response in Matthew 19:8-9 clarifies that it was a concession, not a command. Moses permitted divorce because of the hardness of human hearts, but from the beginning it was not so.
This distinction between a divine command and a divine concession is crucial. The Mosaic law regulated a practice that existed because of human sinfulness, but it did not establish divorce as God’s ideal. Jesus points back to the beginning, showing that the concession was a temporary accommodation, not the original intention for marriage.
Biblical connections
Jesus’ teaching in Matthew 19:8-9 reinforces the creation ordinance of marriage from Genesis 2:24. He states that whoever divorces his spouse, except for sexual immorality (porneia), and marries another commits adultery. This statement upholds the sacredness of the marriage covenant and discourages divorce except in cases of sexual unfaithfulness.
The broader passage highlights the tension between God’s original design and the provision given through Moses due to human frailty. Jesus calls for a higher standard, emphasizing the permanence and unity of the marital bond.
Application
Value the sanctity of marriage: As followers of Christ, we should cherish the institution of marriage, understanding its divine design and purpose. It is a commitment to be taken seriously and approached with reverence.
Avoid the casual approach to divorce: Divorce should not be taken lightly. While recognizing that human brokenness and sin can lead to marital difficulties, we should strive to work through those challenges, seeking reconciliation and restoration rather than opting for divorce.
Prioritize forgiveness and grace: Instead of focusing solely on the legality of divorce, we should prioritize forgiveness and grace within our marriages. By cultivating a forgiving and selfless attitude, we can foster healthier relationships and work towards healing and restoration.
Seek guidance from Scripture: When grappling with questions about divorce or any other marital issues, it is essential to turn to the teachings of Jesus and the broader counsel of Scripture. Through prayer and studying God’s Word, we can gain wisdom and discernment in navigating the complexities of marriage.
Reflection
Jesus’ response calls us to examine our own hearts. The hardness of heart that Moses addressed still exists today, but Jesus invites us to live according to God’s original design. Marriage is a covenant that reflects God’s faithful love, and we are called to honor it with commitment, grace, and a willingness to seek restoration.
