Romans 14:3

Let not him that eateth despise him that eateth not; and let not him which eateth not judge him that eateth: for God hath received him.

Romans 14:3 (KJV)

Context

Paul wrote to believers in Rome who differed over dietary practices. Some, likely influenced by the ceremonial law, abstained from certain foods, while others, with a greater degree of Gospel liberty, ate freely.

Meaning

Paul commands both groups to avoid two specific sins. The one who eats must not despise the one who abstains, and the one who abstains must not judge the one who eats. To despise means to hold in contempt or set at naught, viewing the other as weak, ignorant, superstitious, or bigoted. To judge means to criticize or pass judgment, viewing the other as a law-breaker or given to gluttony. The ground for this mutual acceptance is stated in the final clause: “for God hath received him.” This means that God has accepted, welcomed, and acknowledged the believer as His own friend and child, regardless of his or her scruples on these matters.

Biblical connections

Because God has received both, believers must also recognize one another as Christian brothers and sisters. These differences in practice are not inconsistent with true piety and are not essential to salvation. The command rests on the truth that each believer is the servant of the Lord, who alone is their Master (Romans 14:4).

Application

The principle extends beyond dietary matters to any area of personal conviction where believers may differ. It urges mutual acceptance and the preservation of unity and love within the Christian community. Believers are called to accept and respect one another despite their differences, focusing on what is essential to salvation and maintaining love within the body of Christ.

Reflection

Consider how you view fellow believers whose convictions differ from yours on non-essential matters. Do you despise or judge them, or do you recognize that God has received them? Reflect on the importance of unity and love within the Christian community, and pray for guidance in applying these principles in your interactions with other believers.