Genesis 32:18

Then thou shalt say, They be thy seruant Iacobs: it is a present sent vnto my lord Esau: and behold also, he is behind vs. Genesis 32:18 (KJV)

The verse is part of the larger narrative in Genesis 32 that records Jacob’s preparation to meet his brother Esau. Earlier chapters tell how Jacob deceived both Esau and their father Isaac to obtain the birthright and blessing that belonged to the firstborn. As a result Esau harbored anger and even plotted to kill Jacob. Now Jacob is returning to his homeland with his family and possessions, and as he approaches the land of Edom he becomes anxious about the impending encounter.

To appease Esau and seek reconciliation, Jacob sends messengers ahead with gifts. In verse 13 Jacob instructs the messengers what to say, and verse 18 records the specific message: “Then thou shalt say, They be thy servant Jacob’s; it is a present sent unto my lord Esau: and, behold, also he is behind us.” The messengers are to identify themselves as Jacob’s servants, a phrase that reflects Jacob’s humility and willingness to submit to Esau. Jacob also tells them to announce that his “little ones” are with him, indicating that his children accompany him openly, not hidden or threatening.

The list of gifts mentioned later includes goats, cows, flocks, and young animals, underscoring Jacob’s desire to demonstrate goodwill through tangible offerings. By making clear that he and his family are following behind, Jacob emphasizes that he bears no hostile intent and seeks peace rather than ambush.

This passage highlights Jacob’s complex emotions and the lengths he is willing to go to restore his relationship with Esau. It teaches that genuine reconciliation requires honesty, humility, and a sincere desire to make amends for past wrongs. Jacob’s example shows that even deep conflict can be approached with a spirit of forgiveness and openness, offering a powerful lesson for believers seeking to heal broken relationships.