Judges 21:18

Howbeit wee may not giue them wiues of our daughters. For the children of Israel haue sworne, saying, Cursed be he that giueth a wife to Beniamin. Judges 21:18 (KJV)

Howbeit we may not give them wives of our daughters: for the children of Israel have sworn, saying, Cursed

be he that giveth a wife to Benjamin. Judges 21:18 (KJV)

The book of Judges records the period after Joshua’s death when Israel was led by a succession of judges. In its closing chapters a tragic incident unfolds among the tribes. The tribe of Benjamin had committed a grievous sin that provoked a civil war with the other Israelite tribes. In their anger the Israelites made a solemn vow not to give any of their daughters in marriage to a man from Benjamin, declaring, “Cursed be he that giveth a wife to Benjamin.” This oath represented a severe penalty intended to punish the tribe for its wrongdoing.

When the other tribes realized that the vow threatened the survival of Benjamin, they sought a way to preserve the tribe without violating their oath. They devised a plan that allowed the remaining Benjamite men to acquire wives without technically breaking the vow. The Israelites captured the young women of Jabesh‑Gilead—who had not taken part in the earlier conflict—and gave them to the Benjamites. In this manner the men of Benjamin obtained wives and the tribe was restored.

The narrative underscores several biblical principles. First, it illustrates the serious consequences that sin can bring, as the tribe of Benjamin faced near extinction because of its disobedience. Second, it highlights the weight of oaths; the Israelites were determined to keep their word even when it produced hardship. Third, it shows the value of creative, wise problem‑solving. By finding a solution that honored the vow while rescuing the tribe, the Israelites demonstrated ingenuity guided by a desire to uphold communal commitments.

Application for believers today includes honoring commitments, whether vows to God or promises to others, and striving to act with integrity. The story also calls us to learn from the mistakes of the past, taking sin seriously and pursuing obedience to God’s commands. When confronted with difficult situations, we are urged to seek God’s wisdom, trusting that He can provide insight and creative solutions that align with His will. Engaging the text with careful study, consulting trusted commentaries, and seeking guidance from spiritual leaders can deepen our understanding of these timeless truths.