Matthew 21:29
He answered and said, I will not: but afterward he repented, and went.
Matthew 21:29 (KJV)
Context
Jesus spoke this verse in the temple after His triumphal entry into Jerusalem, the cleansing of the temple, and the healing of the blind and lame. The chief priests and elders, the religious leaders of Israel, challenged His authority, asking by what right He did these things. In reply, Jesus told the Parable of the Two Sons, beginning with a father who asked his first son to go work in his vineyard.
Meaning
The first son answered bluntly, “I will not,” yet afterward he repented and went. The Greek word translated “repented” (metamelomai) means a change of mind that leads to changed behavior. His refusal was not his final word; he reconsidered, turned from his initial disobedience, and did what his father asked. The verse contrasts mere words with actual obedience, showing that genuine repentance is proven by action.
Biblical connections
Jesus used this parable to confront the religious leaders who professed devotion to God but failed to obey Him. The first son represents the tax collectors and sinners who initially rejected God’s call but repented under the preaching of John the Baptist and Jesus, and so entered the kingdom of God. The second son, who said he would go but did not, represents the chief priests and elders who claimed righteousness yet refused to believe and obey. The parable rebukes empty religion and self-righteousness, affirming that repentance and obedience are more valuable than promises without performance.
Application
This verse calls us to examine whether our lives match our words. It is easy to say we will follow Christ, but true devotion is shown by actually doing His will. The first son’s change of heart encourages us that past refusals do not disqualify us; God graciously accepts those who turn from their sin and obey. It also warns us against the danger of professing obedience while failing to practice it.
Reflection
Have we, like the first son, been willing to change our minds and obey God even after an initial refusal? Or do we, like the second son, say the right words while our actions tell a different story? The verse invites us to genuine repentance—a change of mind that produces a changed life.

