Proverbs 23:6

Eat thou not the bread of him that hath an evil eye, neither desire thou his dainty meats:

Proverbs 23:6 (KJV)

Context

The book of Proverbs is a collection of wisdom literature attributed to King Solomon. It provides practical advice for daily living, covering relationships, work ethics, finances, and moral conduct. Proverbs 23:6 appears within a section that warns against the dangers of greed and dishonesty, especially in association with the wicked.

Meaning

“Bread” represents sustenance, provision, or livelihood, and here it refers to benefiting from someone’s offerings or resources. The “evil eye” is a Hebrew idiom for envy, greed, stinginess, or ill will—a person who looks upon others with covetousness or malicious intent. “Dainty meats” are sumptuous delicacies, symbolizing material possessions, favors, or rewards that may be gained through association with such a person.

The warning is practical: do not accept hospitality from a begrudging or stingy host, and do not crave their delicacies. The verse cautions against entangling oneself with those who are envious or miserly, even when they offer food or favor. It also warns against one’s own desires for the luxuries such a person might provide. This is not merely about table manners but about guarding the heart from greed and unhealthy associations.

Biblical connections

The contrast between an “evil eye” and a “good eye” appears in Proverbs 22:9, where a bountiful eye is linked to generosity. The broader biblical context associates the evil eye with covetousness and wickedness (Deuteronomy 15:9; Matthew 20:15; Mark 7:22).

Application

• Be cautious of those with an “evil eye”: avoid partaking in provisions offered by someone driven by envy, greed, or malicious intent, as such associations can lead to negative consequences.

• Avoid desiring their dainty meats: do not covet the luxurious rewards or possessions associated with such individuals, and steer clear of greed and the pursuit of ill-gotten gains.

This verse teaches discernment in relationships and encourages integrity and contentment with what God provides, rather than being enticed by worldly possessions or unrighteous means. It reminds us to seek godly wisdom in daily interactions, ensuring our choices align with God’s principles of righteousness and justice.

Reflection

Consider your own heart: are there areas where you crave what a stingy or envious person offers? Ask God for a generous spirit and the wisdom to recognize the hidden motives behind others’ gifts, so that your associations honor Him.