1 Corinthians 7:40

But she is happier if she so abide, after my judgment: and I think also that I have the Spirit of God.

1 Corinthians 7:40 (KJV)

Context

Paul closes his teaching on marriage and singleness with a word to widows. In the preceding verse he explains that a wife is bound to her husband as long as he lives, but if her husband dies, she is free to marry “only in the Lord” (1 Corinthians 7:39). Now he gives his own judgment: she is happier if she remains as she is.

Meaning

The phrase “after my judgment” signals that Paul is offering counsel, not a direct command from the Lord. He has already said this in verse 25, where he gives his judgment as one who has obtained mercy from the Lord to be faithful. His advice is therefore Spirit-guided wisdom, not a binding rule for every believer.

When Paul says, “I think also that I have the Spirit of God,” he is not expressing doubt. He is making a confident claim to divine inspiration. The “happiness” he speaks of is not eternal blessedness but present contentment and freedom from worldly cares. Remaining unmarried can allow a widow more peace and leisure to serve the Lord without the added concerns of marriage.

Biblical connections

Paul’s preference for singleness is shaped by the “present distress” and the shortened time he mentions earlier in the chapter (1 Corinthians 7:26, 29). This does not make marriage wrong; it simply means that in times of trouble, the unmarried state can be more advantageous for undivided devotion to the Lord.

Application

This verse teaches that true contentment is not tied to marital status. A widow—or any believer—can find greater happiness in remaining single if that aligns with God’s will for her life. Believers are encouraged to seek God’s will through prayer, Scripture, and wise counsel, and to rely on the Holy Spirit’s guidance when making decisions about marriage or singleness.

Paul’s words also affirm that both marriage and singleness are honorable before God. His counsel is not a command but a wise recommendation, inviting believers to weigh their circumstances and serve the Lord with undivided hearts.

Reflection

Consider how your current state—whether married, single, or widowed—can be used for God’s glory. Contentment flows from a faithful relationship with God, not from any particular social condition. Trust that the same Spirit who guided Paul can guide you in your own decisions.