1 Samuel 20:14

And thou shalt not only while yet I live shew me the kindness of the Lord, that I die not:

1 Samuel 20:14 (KJV)

Context

Jonathan speaks these words to David during a dangerous time. King Saul, Jonathan’s father, wants to kill David because David has become a successful warrior and a rival to the throne. Jonathan loves David as his own soul, so he warns David and promises to protect him. In 1 Samuel 20, the two friends plan to test Saul’s intentions. Jonathan will speak well of David and watch his father’s reaction. If Saul is angry, David must flee. This verse is part of Jonathan’s promise before that test.

Meaning

Jonathan asks David to show him “the kindness of the LORD” while he lives, so that he may not die. The Hebrew word for kindness is chesed, meaning loyal, covenant-keeping love. This is not ordinary human kindness; it is the same faithful love God shows His people. Jonathan is asking David to make a sacred promise, a covenant, to treat him with steadfast love. He also asks David to extend that kindness to his descendants, as the next verse shows. Jonathan knows David will become king, and he wants his family safe under David’s future rule.

Biblical connections

This covenant reflects God’s own character. God’s chesed appears throughout the Old Testament, for example in Psalm 136, where His mercy endures forever. Jonathan’s request is rooted in the belief that true kindness comes from God and should be shared between people. The New Testament shows the fullest expression of this love in Christ, who gave His life for His friends. Jonathan’s promise points forward to that greater sacrifice, where God’s kindness and faithfulness are shown to all who believe.

Application

Believers today are called to show the same loyal love in their relationships. This means keeping promises even when it is costly, protecting those who are vulnerable, and caring for the families of our friends. It also means extending kindness especially when danger or difficulty threatens. The bond between Jonathan and David models a love that is not selfish but seeks the good of the other person. Such love reflects God’s own faithfulness and brings honor to Him.

Reflection

Consider the friendships and covenants in your own life. Are you showing the kindness of the LORD to those who depend on you? Do you keep your promises even when circumstances change? Jonathan’s request reminds us that our love should mirror God’s steadfast love. As we receive His mercy, we are to pass it on to others, trusting that He will sustain us and those we love.