2 Samuel 20:17

And when he was come near unto her, the woman said, Art thou Joab? And he answered, I am he. Then she said unto him, Hear the words of thine handmaid. And he answered, I do hear.

2 Samuel 20:17 (KJV)

Context

This verse is part of the larger narrative of Sheba’s rebellion against King David. Sheba, a Benjamite, had stirred up the men of Israel to abandon David, so the king sent his commanders to pursue him. Joab and his forces followed Sheba to the city of Abel of Beth-maachah and began to besiege it. As they prepared to attack, a wise woman called out from the city wall, seeking to speak with Joab. In this verse, she asks if he is Joab, he confirms his identity, and she respectfully requests that he hear her words. Joab replies, “I do hear,” signaling his willingness to listen.

Meaning

The exchange highlights several significant points. First, the woman recognizes Joab as a person of authority, likely because of his reputation as one of David’s commanders. Her respectful address, calling herself his handmaid, establishes a tone of diplomacy and peace. Second, Joab’s simple response, “I do hear,” demonstrates the importance of active listening. In the midst of conflict and pursuit, he stops to give attention to her words. This willingness to listen opens the door for her wise counsel, which ultimately saves the city from destruction. The verse models the principle that wisdom often comes through humble listening, even from unexpected sources.

Application

This verse reminds us of the value of respectful communication, recognizing authority, and the importance of listening. In our own conflicts, we can follow Joab’s example by pausing to hear wise counsel, even when we are focused on a goal. The woman’s approach also teaches us to speak with respect and directness, seeking peaceful resolution rather than escalation.

Reflection

Consider a situation where you need to stop and truly listen before acting. How might a humble, attentive posture change the outcome? Just as Joab’s willingness to hear the wise woman averted disaster, our own readiness to listen can lead to understanding and peace.