2 Samuel 3:27

And when Abner was returned to Hebron, Joab took him aside in the gate to speak with him quietly, and smote him there under the fifth rib, that he died, for the blood of Asahel his brother.

2 Samuel 3:27 (KJV)

This verse sits in the middle of a bitter power struggle. After King Saul died, war continued between his house and David’s house. Abner, Saul’s army commander, had just switched sides and made a covenant with David to bring the northern tribes under David’s rule. He came to Hebron, David’s capital, with peaceful intentions. But Joab, David’s military commander, saw Abner as a threat and an enemy.

Joab took Abner aside “in the gate” to speak “quietly.” The gate was a public place where people settled legal matters and conducted business. By pulling Abner away from others, Joab pretended friendship and privacy. The phrase “to speak with him quietly” reveals deception. Joab did not want witnesses. He struck Abner “under the fifth rib,” a phrase meaning a fatal wound to the stomach or belly. This was not a fair fight or an act of justice; it was cold-blooded murder.

Joab’s motive was personal revenge. Abner had killed Joab’s brother Asahel in battle (2 Samuel 2:23). In that fight, Abner had warned Asahel to stop chasing him, but Asahel refused. Abner killed him in self-defense. Joab, however, treated it as murder and waited for the right moment to settle the score. His vengeance violated the peace covenant Abner had just made with David.

The Bible consistently warns against personal revenge. In Romans 12:19, God says, “Vengeance is mine; I will repay.” Joab took into his own hands what belonged to God. His act also broke the sacred bond of a covenant, which was a serious offense in Israel. The murder at the gate, a place of judgment, made the crime even more shameful.

Joab’s example warns us about the danger of unresolved anger. He carried bitterness for a long time and let it grow into murder. When we hold onto grudges, we may plan harm in our hearts even if we never act on it. The verse also shows that revenge never brings true justice. It only creates more bloodshed and pain. David later mourned Abner and cursed Joab, showing that God’s chosen king did not approve of this violence.

We must learn to trust God with our hurts and conflicts. He sees every wrong and will judge fairly. Our part is to forgive, seek peace, and leave justice in His hands. This does not mean ignoring evil, but it means refusing to repay evil with evil.

Consider your own relationships. Is there anyone you have quietly planned to hurt or humiliate? Have you pretended peace while holding a weapon of words or actions? Joab’s story calls us to examine our motives and to surrender our desire for revenge to God. He alone can heal the wounds that drive us to bitterness.

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