Proverbs 18:24

A man that hath friends must shew himself friendly: and there is a friend that sticketh closer than a brother.

Proverbs 18:24 (KJV)

Context

This proverb from the book of Proverbs teaches two truths about friendship. First, friendship is reciprocal: a person who wants friends must show a friendly spirit. Second, some friends prove more loyal than family.

Meaning

The opening line calls for intentional effort. To have friends, one must be approachable, kind, and considerate. Building strong friendships requires action, not just desire. As Matthew Henry notes, we must love others and make it appear by kind words, hospitality, and service. The second line describes a friend who “sticketh closer than a brother“—someone whose trust, loyalty, and support surpass even blood ties. Such a friend stands by you through hardship with unwavering commitment.

Biblical connections

Scripture elsewhere shows this kind of devotion. David and Jonathan shared a friendship marked by deep loyalty (1 Samuel 19:4-5; 2 Samuel 9:1-13). Jesus also called His disciples friends and showed the greatest love by laying down His life for them (John 15:13). These examples illustrate the self-giving nature of true friendship.

Application

We should actively cultivate friendships by being friendly, generous, and faithful. This means not merely avoiding offense but serving others in practical ways. We also should choose companions who display these qualities, since they greatly influence our lives. Above all, we can rest in Christ, the friend who never fails.

Reflection

Consider your own friendships. Do you show yourself friendly? Do you thank God for the friend who sticks closer than a brother?