Proverbs 18:23

The poor useth intreaties; but the rich answereth roughly.

Proverbs 18:23 (KJV)

Context

This proverb from the Old Testament wisdom literature offers a realistic observation of how economic status shapes speech. The poor, lacking resources and influence, must depend on the kindness of others. The rich, having what they need, may feel no pressure to be gentle. The verse does not praise or condemn either group; it simply describes a common social pattern.

Meaning

The word “intreaties” means earnest pleas or humble requests. The poor person approaches others with humility, asking for help or favor. In contrast, the rich person answers “roughly,” that is, with harshness or indifference. The proverb does not say that every poor person is humble or every rich person is rude. It describes a common pattern: need tends to produce polite asking, while plenty can produce careless words. This observation warns against the pride that wealth can bring.

Biblical connections

James 1:9-11 directly reinforces this warning. There, the lowly brother is told to glory in his high position, and the rich are reminded that their wealth will fade like a flower. That passage connects to this proverb by showing that arrogance rooted in riches is foolish because wealth is temporary. The believer is called to imitate God’s compassion rather than the world’s harshness.

Application

This verse challenges us to examine our own speech. When someone in need asks for help, do we answer with kindness or with rough words? It also encourages those who are poor to keep their dignity while making their requests known. For those with resources, the call is clear: respond with generosity and respect, remembering that all we have is a gift from God.

Reflection

Consider how you treat people who cannot offer you anything in return. The way we speak to the poor reveals the state of our hearts. Let us ask God to give us humility, so that we may honor Him in every conversation, whether we are the one asking or the one giving.