Deuteronomy 23:6
Thou shalt not seek their peace nor their prosperity all thy days for ever.
Deuteronomy 23:6 (KJV)
Context
This verse belongs to Moses’ final instructions to Israel before they entered the Promised Land. The surrounding passage, Deuteronomy 23:3-5, explains why the Ammonites and Moabites were excluded from the assembly of the Lord. These nations did not meet Israel with bread and water during the wilderness journey, and they hired Balaam to curse Israel (Numbers 22-24). This command is a specific judgment against those nations, not a general rule against seeking peace with all people. God’s judgment was based on their historical actions, not on arbitrary dislike.
Meaning
The Hebrew word for “peace” (shalom) means wholeness and welfare, while “prosperity” (tob) means good and well-being. Israel was told not to promote the welfare or good of these hostile nations. The phrase “all thy days for ever” shows that this was a permanent prohibition. God’s judgment was just because it was based on the historical actions of these nations. This command protected Israel from corrupting influences and reminded them of God’s holiness. It also demonstrated that God’s judgments are righteous and deliberate.
Biblical connections
The New Testament calls believers to love their enemies (Matthew 5:44). This does not contradict the Old Testament command. God’s people must align with His righteous judgments and not bless what God has cursed. The principle is that we should not form alliances with those who oppose God’s purposes, even while we show personal love and kindness. This verse teaches discernment in relationships, not personal vengeance or hatred.
Application
While this command was given to Israel in a specific time, it teaches lasting principles for believers today.
Loyalty to God – Prioritize your relationship with God above any alliance that could compromise your faith.
Discernment in relationships – Be cautious about forming partnerships with individuals or groups that may hinder your spiritual growth or lead you away from God’s will.
Separation from ungodly influences – Deliberately avoid practices and associations that oppose God’s principles, while still interacting with the world thoughtfully.
Trusting God for provision – As you seek His kingdom and righteousness, trust Him to supply your needs (Matthew 6:33).
Reflection
This verse calls us to examine our own relationships and alliances. Are we seeking the well-being of those who oppose God’s work, or are we aligning ourselves with His purposes? It also reminds us that God’s judgments are fair and based on real actions. We can trust His wisdom even when His commands seem difficult. Our ultimate peace and prosperity come from God alone, and we should seek His will above all else. This command points to the need for spiritual discernment in every relationship.

