Ezra 10:44
All these had taken strange wives: and some of them had wives by whom they had children.
Ezra 10:44 (KJV)
Context
The book of Ezra records how the Israelites returned from exile in Babylon to Jerusalem under the decree of King Cyrus of Persia. As they rebuilt their community, the people intermarried with foreigners, which violated God’s commandments. When Ezra and the leaders learned of this, they were grieved and called the people to repentance. The chapter records the people’s confession and their covenant to put away these foreign wives and children, a drastic measure taken to restore purity of worship and obedience to God.
Meaning
The phrase “strange wives” in the King James Version refers to women from the surrounding nations, not to wives who were morally strange. The word “strange” means foreign or outside the covenant community. The verse states that all those listed in the preceding register had taken such wives, and some of them had children by these wives. This shows that the problem was widespread and affected even families with children. The mention of children indicates the depth of the entanglement and the cost of the required remedy.
Biblical connections
God had explicitly commanded His people not to intermarry with the surrounding nations, primarily because of the risk of being influenced by their idolatrous practices and turning away from God. The danger was not ethnic mixing but spiritual compromise. Earlier in Ezra 10, the people made a covenant with God to put away their foreign wives and children, a drastic measure taken to restore purity of worship and obedience to God’s laws. This passage is not about ethnic purity but about covenant faithfulness and the danger of idolatry.
Application
The verse reminds us of the importance of obedience to God’s commands. When making significant life decisions, such as marriage, we should carefully consider His principles and guidelines. Choosing a life partner who shares our faith and values is vital for a healthy and thriving marital relationship. When we become aware of disobedience or sin in our lives, it is essential to respond with a humble and repentant heart, as the Israelites did. The people’s action, though severe, was aimed at preserving the integrity of the community’s relationship with God.
Obedience to God’s commands: The verse reminds us to follow God’s principles in all major decisions.
Recognizing and repenting from sin: When we realize our wrongdoing, we should seek forgiveness and take necessary steps to make amends.
Prioritizing spiritual compatibility: Seek a partner who will support our spiritual growth and help us stay committed to following God’s ways.
Restoring broken relationships: When we recognize our mistakes, we should strive to make things right and seek healing and restoration in affected relationships.
Reflection
The verse closes the chapter with a stark summary of the problem that had to be addressed, serving as a sobering reminder of the consequences of disobedience and the need for decisive action in repentance. The seriousness of the sin and the reality that even families with children were affected highlight the cost of compromise. Yet the people’s response shows that repentance, though costly, leads back to a right relationship with God.

