Genesis 32:20

And say ye moreover, Behold, thy servant Jacob is behind us. For he said, I will appease him with the present that goeth before me, and afterward I will see his face; peradventure he will accept of me.

Genesis 32:20 (KJV)

Context

Genesis 32 records Jacob’s preparation to meet his estranged brother Esau after many years. The brothers had parted on bad terms, and Jacob feared Esau’s anger. He sent messengers ahead with gifts, hoping to win Esau’s favour. Jacob had previously wronged Esau by taking his birthright and blessing, so he now seeks to make peace.

Meaning

Jacob’s instructions reveal his anxiety. He calls himself “thy servant” and hopes the present will appease Esau. The Hebrew word for “appease” can mean to cover or make atonement, though here it is social, not sacrificial. The phrase “peradventure he will accept of me” literally means “perhaps he will lift up my face,” showing Jacob’s uncertainty and longing for acceptance. His self-designation as servant and his reference to Esau as “my lord” demonstrate humility and submission.

Biblical connections

Jacob’s self-lowering reflects a change after his encounter with God at Peniel (Genesis 32:22-32), where he wrestled and received the name Israel. His desire for reconciliation also connects to Proverbs 21:14, which says a gift in secret pacifies anger. Yet the true resolution comes from God, as Esau runs to embrace Jacob (Genesis 33:4). This shows that reconciliation is ultimately a work of God’s grace, not merely human effort.

Application

This verse teaches humility and the importance of making amends. Jacob acknowledges his past wrongs, especially the deception of Isaac and taking Esau’s blessing (Genesis 27). He seeks forgiveness, not just to avoid harm. Believers can follow his example by humbling themselves, offering sincere apologies, and trusting God’s guidance in difficult relationships. We can take practical steps toward peace, while remembering that God is the one who changes hearts.

Reflection

Jacob relied on his own strategy of gifts, but God’s grace brought the reconciliation. This reminds us that true peace is ultimately a work of God, not merely human effort. We can do our part, yet we depend on God to soften hearts and restore broken bonds. Even when our efforts seem uncertain, God remains faithful to His promises.