Genesis 50:4
And when the days of his mourning were past, Joseph spake unto the house of Pharaoh, saying, If now I have found grace in your eyes, speak, I pray you, in the ears of Pharaoh, saying,
Genesis 50:4 (KJV)
Context
Genesis 50 closes the book of Genesis, which tells the story of Joseph, one of the twelve sons of Jacob, also called Israel. Joseph was sold into slavery by his jealous brothers, yet God raised him to become the second most powerful man in Egypt. In this verse, Jacob has just died, and Joseph speaks to the house of Pharaoh, the officials who served the king, asking them to carry a message to Pharaoh.
Meaning
Joseph first completed the customary days of mourning for his father. This period of grief shows his deep love and respect. Then he approached Pharaoh’s household with humility, saying, “If now I have found grace in your eyes, speak, I pray you, in the ears of Pharaoh.” He did not demand or assume direct access to the king. Instead, he worked through proper channels, showing respect for authority and protocol. His request was not yet stated fully; it would be made in the next verse, but here he sought favor and a hearing.
Biblical connections
Joseph’s conduct here continues the pattern of his life. Earlier, even in prison, he spoke respectfully to Pharaoh’s officers (Genesis 40). Now, in a high position, he still does not presume. His humility and patience echo the wisdom later written in Proverbs, that a gentle answer turns away wrath, but here the focus is on his respectful petition. He also honors his father’s final wish, fulfilling the command to honor parents, a duty that remains important throughout Scripture.
Application
This verse teaches several practical lessons. First, humility is fitting for every believer, regardless of position or success. Joseph’s example reminds us not to let pride control our actions. Second, respecting authority and using proper channels of communication can open doors. We should not rush or bypass established order without need. Third, honoring parents includes caring for their needs and wishes, even in difficult times. Finally, grief needs time. Joseph did not rush his mourning; he allowed a season of reflection and remembrance before moving forward.
Reflection
Joseph’s life shows that faithfulness in small and great matters pleases God. His respectful request, made through intermediaries, models how we can approach those in authority with grace and patience. As we face our own responsibilities, we can ask God for the same humble spirit, trusting that He sees our hearts and guides our steps.

