Leviticus 21:3
And for his sister a virgin, that is nigh unto him, which hath had no husband; for her may he be defiled.
Leviticus 21:3 (KJV)
Context
Leviticus 21 gives special rules for priests who served God in the tabernacle. They were to keep themselves holy because they handled holy things. This verse is part of a list that tells a priest for which close relatives he may become ritually unclean by touching a dead body. Normally, a priest was not allowed to touch the dead, but God made an exception for his nearest family.
Meaning
The verse names a virgin sister who is “nigh unto him” and has had no husband. Because she was unmarried, she lived in her father’s house and depended on her brother for care and protection. The phrase “for her may he be defiled” means the priest could take part in mourning for her, even though this made him ceremonially unclean for a time. This allowance showed that family duty and compassion were important, even for those called to holy service.
Biblical connections
The same chapter also permits a priest to mourn for his mother, father, son, daughter, and brother. This verse extends that care to an unmarried sister, who had no husband to provide for her. The principle is that God values the protection of vulnerable dependents. In the New Testament, believers are called a “royal priesthood” (1 Peter 2:9), and they too must balance holy living with loving responsibility toward family.
Application
This verse teaches that holiness does not mean ignoring family needs. A believer today should not use religious duties as an excuse to neglect caring for relatives, especially those who are weak or alone. God notices when we show compassion to those who depend on us. At the same time, we must keep our hearts pure and devoted to Him in all we do.
Reflection
God’s rules for priests were not cold or harsh. They made room for grief and family love. This shows that His holiness works together with mercy. We can serve God faithfully while also honoring our family ties, trusting that He sees both our worship and our care for others.

