Proverbs 19:6

Many will intreat the favour of the prince: and every man is a friend to him that giveth gifts.

Proverbs 19:6 (KJV)

Context

This proverb comes from the collection of wise sayings attributed to King Solomon. It describes a common human tendency: people often seek the favor of those in power, and many act friendly toward a person who gives gifts. The Hebrew word for “prince” can also mean a ruler, noble, or generous person, so the principle applies to anyone with authority or resources.

Meaning

The verse is not a command but a realistic observation about human nature. It shows that relationships are often motivated by self-interest and the hope of material benefit. People may flatter a leader or pretend friendship with a gift-giver in order to gain advantage. The proverb warns us to see this tendency clearly and to examine our own motives in relationships. True friendship is not bought with gifts or based on what we can get from another person.

Biblical connections

Scripture consistently teaches that wisdom and righteousness are more valuable than wealth. Jesus instructed His followers to love others unconditionally and to give without expecting anything in return (Luke 6:27-36). The Bible also warns against manipulation and deceit used to win favor, urging believers to act with integrity. God is the ultimate giver of every good gift, and His favor is the one we should seek above human approval.

Application

Applying this proverb today invites honest reflection. Ask whether your kindness toward others grows from genuine care or from a desire for gain. Consider the intentions of those who seek your favor, and decide whether you respond out of fairness and love or because of what you might receive. As followers of Christ, we are called to show sincere generosity and to treat others with honesty, without expecting repayment.

Reflection

This single verse reminds us that God sees the heart. He values relationships built on trust, mutual respect, and shared faith. When we give, let us give freely as an act of love, not as a way to buy friendship. When we receive, let us be grateful and guard against flattery. Seek first the favor of God, who gives generously to all and whose friendship never fails.