Proverbs 19:6
Many will entreate the fauour of the Prince: and euery man is a friend to him that giueth gifts. Proverbs 19:6 (KJV)
Many will intreat the favour of the prince: and every man
is
a friend to him that giveth gifts. Proverbs 19:6 (KJV)
The book of Proverbs is a collection of wise sayings attributed to King Solomon, whose God‑given wisdom undergirds the practical insights found throughout the book. Proverbs 19:6 observes a common human tendency: when a person holds power or authority, many will intreat the favour of the prince, seeking support, assistance, or advantage. The verse continues, “every man is a friend to him that giveth gifts,” indicating that people are often drawn to those who give them gifts, creating a sense of obligation or gratitude that can be mistaken for friendship.
This proverb therefore offers a clear picture of human nature. It points out that relationships are frequently motivated by self‑interest and the prospect of material benefit. While the observation is realistic, the passage also calls the reader to discernment. Genuine relationships, the text implies, should be founded on trust, mutual respect, and shared values rather than on the exchange of gifts or the pursuit of personal advantage.
The Bible’s broader teaching affirms higher principles of love, generosity, and selflessness. Jesus instructed His followers to love one another unconditionally and to give without expecting return (see Luke 6:27‑36). Scripture warns against manipulation or deceit used to gain favour or friendship, urging believers to act with integrity.
Applying Proverbs 19:6 today invites personal reflection. Examine whether our own motives are rooted in genuine care or in the desire for gain. Consider the intentions of those who seek our favour and ask whether we are responding out of fairness and love or because of what we might receive. As followers of Christ, we are called to display sincere generosity, treating others with honesty and integrity.
Finally, remember that a single verse does not convey the full counsel of Scripture. Studying Proverbs 19:6 within the wider biblical narrative enriches understanding and helps align our lives with God’s wisdom.
