Proverbs 19:7

All the brethren of the poor do hate him: how much more do his friends go far from him? he pursueth them with words, yet they are wanting to him.

Proverbs 19:7 (KJV)

Context

Proverbs is Old Testament wisdom literature, giving practical guidance for daily life. This verse describes a painful social reality: poverty often brings rejection. The poor person’s own relatives and friends distance themselves, and his pleas for help go unanswered. This is a realistic observation of fallen human behavior, not a command or a promise.

Meaning

The word “brethren” means fellow Israelites or close family. Even they may turn against someone in need. The phrase “how much more” shows that if relatives are hostile, friends will likely withdraw even further. The final clause pictures the poor man earnestly speaking to win support, but “they are wanting to him” means they fail him completely. His words, though sincere, do not secure the help he seeks.

Biblical connections

This observation contrasts with other Proverbs that call for kindness to the poor. Proverbs 14:31 says that whoever oppresses the poor reproaches God, while whoever honors Him has mercy on the needy. Proverbs 19:17 teaches that lending to the poor is lending to the Lord. These verses show that God honors those who help the needy, contrasting with the selfishness described here.

Application

Believers must examine their own hearts. Do we avoid people who are struggling? True friendship requires action, not just words. We should be the kind of brother or friend who stays near, offering practical support. Our speech must be matched by deeds. This verse challenges us to be different from the world’s rejection.

Reflection

This verse also points to God’s faithfulness. He does not abandon the poor, and Christ identified with the outcast. We can trust that God sees every neglected person and calls us to reflect His care. In a world that turns away, we can be agents of His compassion.