Proverbs 23:9
Speak not in the ears of a fool: for he will despise the wisdom of thy words.
Proverbs 23:9 (KJV)
Context
This verse belongs to a collection of wise sayings in Proverbs, a book traditionally linked to King Solomon. These sayings guide daily conduct, especially speech and relationships. The immediate setting includes warnings about how the wise and the foolish respond to correction.
Meaning
The instruction is clear: do not waste wise words on a fool. In Scripture, a fool is not simply uneducated. A fool rejects wisdom and lacks moral and spiritual understanding. Such a person will despise or scorn your words, treating them with contempt. The verse does not forbid speaking to fools altogether. It warns against investing effort where it will be rejected. This is a caution about discernment in communication, not a command to avoid all contact with those who disagree.
Biblical connections
Proverbs often contrasts the wise and the foolish. This verse applies that contrast to communication. It also implies a stewardship of wisdom: valuable words should not be cast where they will be trampled. Jesus later gives a similar warning in Matthew 7:6 about not giving what is holy to those who will despise it. The broader wisdom literature consistently shows that not everyone is receptive to truth.
Application
We need discernment in our conversations. Not everyone is ready to receive advice or truth. Before speaking, consider the listener’s openness. This does not mean avoiding all difficult conversations. It means recognizing when further talk will only bring scorn. We can pray for wisdom to know when to speak and when to stay silent. In evangelism and counsel, we should be prudent, not discouraged, when wisdom is rejected.
Reflection
This verse guards our hearts from discouragement. When people reject godly wisdom, we should not be surprised. Our duty is to share truth faithfully, but the outcome belongs to God. We can trust the Holy Spirit to guide our words and to give us peace when they are despised. We are stewards of wisdom, called to use it well.

