Proverbs 7:5

That they may keep thee from the strange woman, from the stranger which flattereth with her words.

Proverbs 7:5 (KJV)

Context

Proverbs 7 is a father’s earnest instruction to his son. The father warns against the seductive words of an adulterous woman. This verse is the goal of that teaching: wisdom and understanding are meant to guard the son from her. The book of Proverbs, attributed mainly to King Solomon, gives practical guidance for living rightly, especially in relationships and moral choices. The father’s words are not distant advice; they are urgent, personal, and meant to be remembered.

Meaning

The words “strange woman” and “stranger” describe an immoral or adulterous woman, one who is outside the bounds of a faithful marriage. Her danger lies in her flattering speech, which sounds smooth and persuasive but leads to ruin. The verse teaches that wisdom is not just knowledge; it is a protective power. When a person treasures wise instruction, it becomes a shield against deceptive words and destructive desires. This protection is practical, guarding conduct and preserving fidelity in marriage.

Biblical connections

This warning appears also in Proverbs 2:16 and Proverbs 6:24, where wisdom keeps a person from the adulteress and her smooth tongue. These repeated warnings show how serious the threat is and how strongly God desires His people to stay pure. The same protective role of wisdom points ultimately to Christ, who is the source of true wisdom and the one who empowers believers to resist temptation. Knowing Christ and the Gospel intimately keeps one from sin, including fleshly lusts and errors.

Application

Believers today face many voices that flatter and deceive, not only in sexual temptation but also in false promises and manipulative words. This verse calls for vigilance and discernment. Staying faithful in marriage and in all commitments requires deliberate effort. Immersing oneself in Scripture and prayer builds the inner strength needed to recognize and resist flattery. Trusting in Christ and staying close to Him keeps the heart anchored when temptations arise. Heeding instruction and retaining wisdom are daily choices that protect the soul.

Reflection

Consider how often smooth words can lead a person away from what is right. The father’s warning is still timely. Wisdom is a gift from God, but it must be received and practiced. Let this verse encourage a deeper love for God’s Word, so that its truths guard the heart and guide every decision.