1 Corinthians 7:6

But I speak this by permission, and not of commandment.

1 Corinthians 7:6 (KJV)

Context

Paul writes to a church in Corinth where believers were asking hard questions about marriage, singleness, and how faith shapes intimate relationships. Some in the congregation promoted total abstinence from marriage, while others were unsure how to apply their new faith to existing marriages. In this setting, Paul gives practical guidance, and in verse 6 he carefully qualifies what he has just said.

Meaning

Paul begins, “I speak this by permission, and not of commandment.” The Greek word rendered “permission” is ἐπιτροπή (epitropē), meaning “permission” or “authority.” It is not the word γνώμη (gnōmē), which would mean a mere opinion. Paul is not offering casual advice; he is exercising discernment under apostolic authority. Yet he is clear that his instruction is not a direct command from the Lord. This distinction matters: not every apostolic utterance carries the same binding force as an explicit divine commandment.

Commentators debate whether “this” refers to what precedes or what follows. The more natural reading points back to the preceding instruction about temporary abstinence for prayer. Paul is not commanding such abstinence but permitting it as a spiritual discipline when both spouses agree. His words carry weight, but they leave room for personal judgment.

Biblical connections

This verse sits within Paul’s broader teaching that marriage is the norm for those not gifted for singleness, while temporary abstinence by mutual consent is allowed for focused prayer. The principle of distinguishing command from counsel also appears in 1 Corinthians 7:25, where Paul says he gives his judgment as one who has obtained mercy of the Lord to be faithful.

Application

Recognizing Paul’s intent helps modern readers discern between inspired commandments and apostolic advice. While all Scripture is inspired, not every instruction in the epistles is a universal command. Believers are free to exercise personal judgment in matters not explicitly commanded or prohibited, guided by the Holy Spirit and biblical principles. This calls for reverence and reliance on the Spirit in applying such counsel.

Reflection

Paul’s careful wording invites us to hold two truths together: the authority of apostolic teaching and the freedom of Christian judgment. We can receive wise counsel with gratitude, test it against Scripture, and follow it with a clear conscience, knowing that God’s commands are few and clear, while His wisdom is rich and personal.