1 Samuel 20:19

And when thou hast stayed three days, then thou shalt go down quickly, and come to the place where thou didst hide thyself when the business was in hand, and shalt remain by the stone Ezel.

1 Samuel 20:19 (KJV)

Context

This verse belongs to the larger story of the friendship between Jonathan, the son of King Saul, and David, who would later become king of Israel. At this point, Saul is jealous and paranoid because David has gained favour among the people and is seen as a threat to Saul’s kingship. Jonathan and David are devising a plan to determine Saul’s true intentions toward David.

Meaning

Jonathan instructs David to wait three days before carrying out the next part of the plan. This delay likely gave David time to hide and for the plan to unfold safely. After the three days, David was to go down quickly to the place where he had hidden himself when the business was in hand. The urgency suggests danger and secrecy. David was to remain by the stone Ezel, a specific landmark for their secret meeting. The stone Ezel is not mentioned elsewhere in the Bible, so its exact significance is uncertain, but it served as a known reference point for the two friends. The three-day wait also gave Saul time to show his intentions, making the test clearer.

Biblical connections

The careful planning and trust between David and Jonathan reflect the covenant friendship they had already established. Jonathan risked his own safety by defying his father Saul’s unjust pursuit of David. Their plan shows their commitment to each other’s well-being and their desire to discern God’s will in difficult circumstances. This passage also demonstrates God’s providential care for David, using Jonathan as an instrument of protection. God often works through faithful people to guard and guide His own.

Application

This verse reminds us of the value of true friendship and the importance of trust and support, even in challenging times. It encourages us to seek wise and godly counsel, to rely on one another, and to put our trust in the Lord as we navigate life’s complexities. The specific details—the three days, the place of hiding, and the stone Ezel—underscore the seriousness and urgency of the situation, teaching us to follow wise counsel in times of danger. When we face threats or uncertainty, God may provide friends who help us see the next step.

Reflection

Consider how God may use faithful friends to guide and protect you. Just as Jonathan helped David, godly friends can help us discern the right path. Trusting God’s guidance through faithful friends and following wise counsel can bring safety and clarity in uncertain times. Who has God placed in your life to be a source of wisdom and support?