1 Samuel 20:6
If thy father at all misse me, then say, Dauid earnestly asked leaue of me that he might runne to Bethlehem his citie: for there is a yeerely sacrifice there for all the family. 1 Samuel 20:6 (KJV)
In 1 Samuel 20 we encounter the deep friendship between David and Jonathan, son of King Saul. Saul’s jealousy had grown to the point where he sought to kill David, and Jonathan is trying to discern his father’s true intentions toward his friend. The verse records Jonathan’s suggestion of a safe‑exit plan: if Saul notices David’s absence, Jonathan tells David to claim that he had asked permission to go to Bethlehem for the annual family sacrifice. This cover story would provide a plausible reason for his departure and protect him from Saul’s wrath.
The phrase “If thy father at all miss me” reflects Jonathan’s awareness of the danger David faces in Saul’s presence. By proposing that David say he “earnestly asked leave of me that he might run to Bethlehem his city,” Jonathan offers a respectful request that aligns with cultural and religious expectations. The justification “for there is a yearly sacrifice there for all the family” grounds the plan in a concrete, recognized event, making the excuse credible.
Key lessons emerge from this passage. First, the loyalty and friendship between David and Jonathan demonstrate sacrificial love; Jonathan is willing to risk his own relationship with his father to protect David. Second, the episode showcases wisdom in difficult situations—Jonathan devises a prudent strategy that balances honesty with self‑preservation. Third, the reference to the yearly sacrifice underscores the importance of honoring family and religious traditions, even when they serve a protective purpose.
Application for today’s believer includes cultivating loyal, supportive friendships that stand firm in times of trouble, seeking godly wisdom when confronting challenging circumstances, and respecting family and cultural practices that align with biblical principles. Prayer, counsel from mature mentors, and diligent study of Scripture can guide believers in navigating danger with discernment, just as Jonathan guided David with both courage and prudence.
