2 Samuel 10:2

Then said David, I will shew kindness unto Hanun the son of Nahash, as his father shewed kindness unto me. And David sent to comfort him by the hand of his servants for his father. And David’s servants came into the land of the children of Ammon.

2 Samuel 10:2 (KJV)

Context

This verse belongs to the account of King David’s reign. Nahash, king of the Ammonites, had died, and his son Hanun now ruled. David remembered the kindness Nahash had shown him, so he decided to honor that memory by sending servants to comfort Hanun in his grief. The parallel account in 1 Chronicles 19:2 confirms the same event and wording. David took the initiative in this diplomatic gesture, showing the importance he placed on maintaining relationships with neighboring nations.

Meaning

The Hebrew word translated “kindness” is chesed, which means loyal, covenant-like love. David was not merely being polite; he was acting out of a deep sense of commitment and gratitude. He sent his own servants to express sympathy, demonstrating his compassionate nature and his desire for peace. This act reflects a character that valued loyalty and compassion, even toward former enemies.

Biblical connections

David’s action reflects the principle of repaying good with good. His kindness, however, would soon be misunderstood. Hanun’s advisors would accuse David’s servants of spying, leading to humiliation and war (2 Samuel 10:3-5). This reminds us that even sincere good intentions can be twisted by suspicion and poor counsel. The narrative shows how quickly conflict can arise when motives are questioned.

Application

We are called to show kindness, especially to those who grieve. Like David, we should remember past favors and respond with gratitude. Yet we must also be wise, knowing that our motives may be questioned. We can still act with integrity, trusting God with the outcome. Showing kindness is not always safe, but it is right.

Reflection

David’s kindness points to a greater kindness. God, through Christ, comforts us in our affliction and shows us loyal love we do not deserve. As we receive that comfort, we are enabled to extend genuine care to others, even when it is costly or misunderstood. This verse foreshadows the comfort God gives us in Christ, who is our ultimate example of chesed.