2 Corinthians 10:12

For we dare not make ourselves of the number, or compare ourselves with some that commend themselves: but they measuring themselves by themselves, and comparing themselves among themselves, are not wise.

2 Corinthians 10:12 (KJV)

Context

Paul wrote this letter to the Corinthians to address challenges in the church, including challenges to his apostolic authority. Critics claimed his letters were weighty but his bodily presence was weak and his speech contemptible (2 Corinthians 10:10). In response, Paul refuses to engage in the self-promoting behavior of those who commend themselves.

Paul says, “For we dare not make ourselves of the number, or compare ourselves with some that commend themselves.” He and his fellow ministers are not seeking to elevate themselves or place themselves in the same category as those who boast. Self-exaltation is not wise or beneficial.

Meaning

Paul continues, “but they measuring themselves by themselves, and comparing themselves among themselves, are not wise.” He exposes the foolishness of measuring one’s worth by comparing oneself with others. Such comparison leads to pride, envy, and an inaccurate perception of true worth.

The Greek term translated “not wise” means “without understanding” or “do not comprehend,” indicating a lack of spiritual insight. Paul’s “we dare not” is not a lack of courage but a refusal to join their self-promoting behavior. Those who do this lack an external, divine standard; they judge their religious character by the opinions and maxims of the world.

Biblical connections

Paul’s words highlight the need for a proper standard of evaluation. Instead of comparing ourselves with others, we should measure ourselves against a higher standard. For Christians, that standard is Christ and His teachings. When we align our lives with His principles and character, we gain a proper perspective of ourselves and others. The broader passage (2 Corinthians 10:12-18) emphasizes that legitimate boasting is only in the Lord, and commendation must come from God, not from oneself (2 Corinthians 10:18).

Application

This passage calls us to humility. Paul encourages the Corinthians to avoid boasting and comparing themselves with others, and instead to live humbly before God. Humility recognizes that all abilities, achievements, and blessings come from God, and it allows us to value others without falling into the trap of comparison.

We can examine our motives and attitudes. We should avoid the temptation to compare ourselves with others or seek validation through worldly standards. Instead, we can develop a Christ-centered perspective, recognizing that our worth and identity are rooted in our relationship with Him.

Reflection

True approval comes from the Lord, not from self-commendation. When we measure ourselves by ourselves, we lose sight of God’s standard and His calling on our lives. Let us seek to approve ourselves to God, living humbly and faithfully in the assurance that He knows our hearts and commends us according to His will.