Proverbs 19:26

He that wasteth his father, and chaseth away his mother, is a son that causeth shame, and bringeth reproach.

Proverbs 19:26 (KJV)

Context

This proverb warns against a son who mistreats his parents. The Hebrew word translated “wasteth” means to ruin or plunder, so the son actively destroys his father’s resources and strength. “Chaseth away” means to drive out or banish, showing that he forces his mother from her home. Such behavior is not a private failing but a public disgrace.

Meaning

The son who wastes his father and chases away his mother brings shame and reproach. He dishonors both parents, failing in the duty to care for them. The verse calls this behavior disgraceful, and it damages the family’s reputation. The son’s actions are severe, not merely careless, and they break the bond of love and respect that should exist between children and parents.

Biblical connections

Scripture consistently teaches that honoring parents is foundational to a righteous life. The command to honor father and mother appears in Exodus 20:12 and is repeated in Ephesians 6:1-3. This proverb shows the opposite: a son who brings ruin and rejection upon his parents. The contrast makes clear that such conduct is a grave offense, not only against the family but against God’s order.

Application

This verse calls readers to examine how they treat their parents. Do we care for them, or do we take from them without gratitude? Do we welcome them, or do we push them away? Honoring parents means providing for their needs, speaking to them with respect, and valuing their presence. It also means avoiding actions that would bring shame or reproach upon them.

Reflection

Consider the weight of this warning. A son who wastes his father and chases away his mother brings sorrow to his own household. Yet the verse also offers a path forward: choose honor, care, and gratitude instead of exploitation and rejection. By doing so, we not only obey God but also preserve the harmony and well-being of our families.