Proverbs 31:6
Give strong drink unto him that is ready to perish, and wine unto those that be of heavy hearts.
Proverbs 31:6 (KJV)
Context
This verse comes from the final chapter of Proverbs, where King Lemuel repeats his mother’s counsel. Verses 1-9 address righteous rule, and verses 10-31 describe a virtuous woman. The mother first warns rulers against drinking, then gives a surprising command about strong drink and wine.
Meaning
“Him that is ready to perish” means someone near death or in extreme physical danger. “Those that be of heavy hearts” describes people crushed by grief or despair. In the ancient Near East, wine and strong drink were known for their pain-numbing and comforting effects. The verse tells us to use them as merciful relief for the suffering, not as pleasure for the healthy.
This is not a general approval of alcohol. The surrounding verses (31:4-5) forbid kings from drinking because they must keep clear judgment. The same drink that harms a ruler can bring temporary comfort to a dying person. The difference lies in the condition of the heart and the purpose of the drink.
Biblical connections
Scripture consistently warns against drunkenness. Proverbs 20:1 says wine is a mocker, and Ephesians 5:18 tells believers not to be drunk with wine. This verse does not cancel those warnings. It shows a narrow, compassionate use for those in desperate need, while leaders and those with responsibilities must stay sober.
Application
We learn to show compassion to the suffering, using available means to ease their pain. We also learn discernment: what is fitting for one person may be harmful for another. A person in authority must avoid anything that clouds judgment, but mercy may allow extraordinary measures for the dying or the deeply sorrowful.
Reflection
God cares for the broken and the dying. He permits temporary relief for those in anguish, while calling His people to self-control. Let us ask for wisdom to know when to comfort and when to abstain, always seeking the good of others and the glory of God.
