Proverbs 5:15

Drink waters out of thine own cistern, and running waters out of thine own well.

Proverbs 5:15 (KJV)

Context

Proverbs is a book of wisdom, written mainly by King Solomon. This verse is part of a longer warning to a young man about the dangers of adultery. Earlier in the chapter, Solomon describes the bitter results of chasing forbidden relationships, such as losing honor and strength (Proverbs 5:9-11). Here he turns to a positive command: find joy and satisfaction within your own marriage.

Meaning

In ancient Israel, a cistern and a well were private, vital sources of water. They provided life, refreshment, and security for a household. By saying “Drink waters out of thine own cistern,” Solomon uses this picture to teach faithfulness. The water represents the love and intimacy that belong only to a husband and wife. The phrase “running waters” suggests freshness and vitality, showing that marital joy is not dull or stagnant but continually refreshing. The words “thine own” stress that this blessing is exclusive and personal. In the ancient Near East, such water sources were essential for survival, making the image even more powerful: a spouse is a God-given source of sustenance and delight.

Biblical connections

This teaching agrees with the wider Bible message that marriage is honorable and pure (Hebrews 13:4). It also stands in contrast to the “strange woman” and “adulteress” mentioned in Proverbs 5:3 and 5:20. The verse is not just a rule against wrongdoing; it is a call to actively enjoy the spouse God has given. In a deeper sense, it also pictures spiritual faithfulness, reminding God’s people to be satisfied in Him rather than chasing idols or forbidden desires. The command to drink from your own cistern is a positive exhortation, not merely a prohibition.

Application

This verse urges husbands and wives to invest time, effort, and love in their own relationship. It warns against seeking fulfillment outside the marriage, whether through physical unfaithfulness or emotional disloyalty. The principle also extends beyond marriage: it encourages contentment with what God has provided instead of always looking elsewhere. Nurture the blessings you already have, whether in family, friendships, or your walk with God. Make a habit of rejoicing in your spouse and guarding your heart from wandering desires.

Reflection

Consider your own “cistern” and “well.” Are you drinking deeply from the good gifts God has placed in your life, or are you longing for what belongs to others? This verse invites you to rejoice in your own spouse and to cultivate a heart of gratitude. Let the image of fresh, running water remind you that God’s design for love is both pure and satisfying.